“Most men naturally assume that itâs the MAN who must pursue the woman. But guys who are naturals at succeeding with women donât buy into this belief — and itâs a big part of why theyâre always with the most attractive women. What would your life be like if instead of chasing women, women chased you? Here are 10 tips to shift the dynamic in your favor and get women tripping over themselves for a space on your social calendar.”
Number 10: Use âreverse rapportâ?
âReverse rapportâ? is when you say and do the opposite of what a guy would do when heâs trying to make a woman like himâ¦ but in a sarcastic, overly serious way that assumes the woman already knows, likes and trusts you. The objective here is NOT to try to be sweet and wonderful and nice in order to win her approval. How do you do this? Well, one way is to use a sarcastic comment thatâs the OPPOSITE of what a woman wants to hear. Or answer a question a woman asks you with an answer thatâs the opposite of what she expects, all in a very sarcastic tone that implies youâre making fun of her. When you do, youâll create a deep, polarity-charged connection with her that will get her pursuing you in no time flat.
Number 9:Read between the lines
If youâre talking to a woman on the phone and she tells you that sheâs seeing someone, understand that sheâs saying this more for herself than for you. She probably is casually dating another guy, but sheâs feeling attracted to you, so she needs to say this to put on the brakes so she doesnât feel âpromiscuous.â? If you find yourself in this situation, tell her something challenging like âYeah, congratulationsâ¦ and you know, thatâs pretty assumptive thinking that I was trying to pursue you.â? She wonât know what to say, and you will have communicated that youâre a confident guy who doesnât need any woman — just the kind of guy women LOVE. Donât be surprised if she calls you back within a week, telling you she wants to get together and that sheâs suddenly dumped the guy she was dating (for a chance to get to know you, of course).
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