“Most men naturally assume that itâs the MAN who must pursue the woman. But guys who are naturals at succeeding with women donât buy into this belief — and itâs a big part of why theyâre always with the most attractive women. What would your life be like if instead of chasing women, women chased you? Here are 10 tips to shift the dynamic in your favor and get women tripping over themselves for a space on your social calendar.”
Number 6: Be the dominant one
“Courting is based on what you DO, what you OFFER, and what you GIVE⦠and is largely based on gifts, dinners, flowers, compliments, etc. Attraction is based on how you communicate, who you are and your masculine identity. Courting takes the âmake friendsâ? strategy and supersizes it; itâs about being as nice as possible in order to get her to like you. Attraction isnât concerned with âlikingâ? because a woman doesnât need to like you in order to feel attracted to you. Courting is facing the challenge; attraction is BEING the challenge. Courting is about being a follower, submissive and weak; attraction is about being a leader, dominant and strong. Stop courting, start attracting, and you wonât BELIEVE how it can transform your success with women.”
Number 5: Show her you get it
“Women will act completely different around you and treat you very differently if youâre a guy who âgets it.â? The way to show her youâre one of these rare guys is to see when sheâs testing you and keep your cool. So if she mentions that other men are interested in her or she says sheâs unavailable or she complains about something you do, realize itâs just a test. Then simply say, âHey, stop that stuff,â? and sheâll know what you mean. More importantly, sheâll know sheâs dealing with a real man, and sheâll stop at no expense to chase you down.”
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